thanks guys

i just want to say thanks for the comments and advice from my last entry.
it's moments like these when i'm glad i finally decided to create this blog.

in a way, it's like i'm not going through this alone. it's great that i'm able to write down what i'm going through and get such positive feed back.

i have a question for "devil's advocate."
since you didn't have a link to a blog, i assume you don't have one.
out of curiousity, i was wondering what stage in life that you're going through?
are you closeted, in the process of coming out, or already out?
it actually sounds like you're out at least to a few people because your comment seems to be coming from experience.
i just want to say thanks again. don't feel the need to answer this if you choose not to.
it's totally up to you on what you feel comfortable commenting on.
it's really just out of my own curiousity as to who out there is reading this.


anyway, so for those of you wondering what i ended up doing i'll tell you.
i didn't do anything. lol. i don't know if it was the best thing to, but that's just what i did.
i didn't resond back to the text.
it's not unusual for me to not reply back anyway. there are plenty of times i get texts and don't always reply back. it's either because i'm busy or that i just simply forget to text back until it's too late.
let's just say that i "conveniently" forgot about it. *wink*
hahaha!
oh well, we'll just wait and see what happens.

thanks

can i just begin by saying how glad i am that i started this blog.
i'm able to write about things that i haven't told anybody! it actually feels kind of weird to type so freely and talk about these things.

i'm also surprised that i actually have readers (even if it's less than 5! lol).
and guess who was the very first person to leave me a comment?
it was matt from debriefing the boys! (check out his blog, it's on my link list)
he was actually one of the very first blogs that i ever started reading. i remember reading his blog before he came out. then came the entry when he told his parents. i was so happy for him.

this was when i was still somewhat in denial about myself, but found his blog so inspiring.
so because of him, i found other people with blogs dealing with the same situations i would find myself in.
it's comforting to know that i can relate to others and that i'm not the only one struggling with this.
if it wasn't for him and his blog, i probably wouldn't even have known about all the other bloggers and i surely wouldn't be writing in this blog right now. so thanks matt!

i'd also like to thank 'closeted' for your comment and words of encouragement! (his blog is also on my link list)
also, thanks to "anonymous" for your comment in the last post. just curious, do you have a blog of your own? if not, i hope you come back and let me know what's going on in your life, or if you just want to leave a random comment, or just want to stop by and say hey.

actually, this goes for anyone who happens to be reading this (whether you're blogger or non-blogger). i dont care if you just want to leave a comment saying "hi" or whatever.

update: just want to give another thanks to 'b' from 'figuring myself out' (also on my link list) for mentioning me in his blog. i hope any of y'all that stop by will let me know about your own blog. i look forward to reading about people who are/were in the same position i'm in. :)